I’m just saying…
There is so much back and forth about body size and crap.
All of you.
I’m sick and tired of looking and hearing about all this.
Hearing from my mother…
Looking at Victoria Secret models and wishing I could look like them ‘cuz of constant drilling into little girls and boys’ minds that this:
is the only definition of beautiful.
(mix and match hair color and eye color)
I’m sick and tired of it all.
I admit and good for her for being who she is!
As long as she’s healthy.
That’s what we, as a society, should be advocating!
HEALTHY DAMN IT ALL HEALTHY!!
Stick thin doesn’t mean healthy.
Hell, if I were to be my goal weight, I would still have hips.
But no…even as I write… I still think about the other attributes that I want:
More almond shaped eyes
Naturally curled eyelashes
I want to be beautiful.
And you know what… Images of Victoria’s Secret models come to my mind when I say I want to be beautiful.
Tina Fey spoke the truth, honestly.
Fuck you, fashion industry or whoever said that being stick thin is the only way to be beautiful and to be worth something.
Because in society today, who cares if you have brains?
You have to be attractive, too.
Women are expected to do more to be beautiful, of course.
“You look beautiful without makeup!”
*Shows up without it*
Same person whispering to other person: “Oh my Gawd, she didn’t put any effort at all.”
WHO GIVES A FLYING FLADOODLE???
I’M SICK AND TIRED OF NOT FEELING WORTH IT JUST ‘CUZ I DON’T LOOK LIKE A MODEL!!
I HAVE A 4.0 IN COLLEGE AND I’M ASPIRING TO BE A FREAKING MEDICAL EXAMINER!!
I have to be a doctor for that, and I am very passionate about science.
I have a full-ride to college, and a lot of people are impressed with me being so ambitious if not a little cut throat about my future.
I even have a boyfriend who is in the Air Force and is doing well for himself.
He is content with who I am and loves my mind as well.
Now, why is it…with all of this.. I still feel like I’m not good enough?
The way I look.
As far as I see, men don’t feel that same pressure.
You have to be somewhat fit or whatever, but your worth isn’t based on your looks.
Now, why isn’t this what girls are taught??
All I’m saying is… how ’bout we just stop giving a fuck.
I like what I like, but that’s not the ideal guy for everyone.
My friend would rather have a skinnier girlfriend, but my boyfriend wants a thicker girlfriend.
I want people to realize that not one person is the ideal “beauty”.
That’s up to the individual.